TAO writes on the offensive Gotcha Day and noted the comment which included the thought that the only important day for one adoptee was the day ‘she was officially ours’. I wonder what the adoptee will think as she grows up?
I’m used to the mishmash of terms used by some families who’ve adopted and celebrate the day. It works for them, hopefully if they see it doesn’t work for their child they’ll stop. Still detest the term “Gotcha Day” for many reasons that should be obvious.
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